Love Beyond by Ramesh Meyyappan
This was an extraordinary, wonderful play using non hearing and hearing actors, with the beauty of sign language woven into a love story and tale of dementia which came to the Lemon Tree for two nights in September .
Increasingly, we are lucky enough to have shows and plays come to Aberdeen which have been successful at the Edinburgh Fringe. ‘Love Beyond’ by Ramesh Meyyappen and directed by Matthew Lenton is one such play. It is a poignant and thoughtful story about the experience of dementia as Harry arrives into formal Care . Visually stunning,the show is at the cutting edge of theatre and is just not the sort of thing we usually see here in Aberdeen.
In this love story, we see Harry’s memories through 3 large windows looking out of his room, which are in fact 2 way mirrors. It helps us see how memories often seem like new, fresh events to a dementia sufferer. We experience his memories through the windows as they become a live scene of him falling in love with his wife. By using a non hearing main character we also see the difficulties in communication and the reality of memories to a dementia sufferer. In a lovely moment the carer explains she has only had a 2 hour BSL introduction before her new, completely deaf, client arrives. The carer not being fluent in sign language made me think of the problems of communication present in hearing dementia patients too.
The story is tender and complex and shows the viewpoint of both the sufferer and the carer. The kindness and complexity of being a carer is wonderfully shown. As she starts to learn BSL( British Sign Language) sign language, Harry is forgetting his BSL and finally he is left with just himself in a touching and realistic story. Although supported by the BDA (British Deaf Association ) this story is just as relevant to the world of dementia. Like the best of shows, in just over an hour, it communicates fresh insights on a disease known and feared by many.
It is an exceptional piece of theatre, very thought provoking and creatively done
This play is touring Scotland and still has dates in Tron, Glasgow 3-5th, Macroberts Arts Centre, Stirling October 9th and Eden Court,Inverness October 16/17, see it if you can.
Julia House